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More Than Words

The tongue has the power of life and death... Proverbs 18:21

Words play a key role in almost every conflict. When used properly, words promote understanding and encourage agreement. When misused, they usually aggravate conflicts and drive people further apart. If your words seem to do more harm than good when you try to resolve a disagreement, don't give up. With God's help you can improve your ability to communicate constructively.

Taken from The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict
by Ken Sande, Updated Edition (Grand Rapids, Baker Books, 2003) p. 162

Food for Thought

The power of life and death is at the tips of our tongues.

Words play a key role in almost every conflict. Other factors come into play, but Ken reminds us of one that's almost always there--words. Words often get a conflict started and just as often, it's words that keep it going. But with God's help, words can also bring resolution, closure, and peace to a conflict.

In Luke 9, we're told the story of an argument that got started between, of all people, the disciples. The reason? They were conflicted over who would be the greatest in the group. We can only imagine what kinds of words were exchanged between these closest to Christ. But Jesus could read the moment and their hearts. So he took a child and spoke words: For he who is least among you all--he is the greatest. Jesus gives us an example of the proper use of words to bring understanding... and peace. He desires us to follow His lead and He promises his ever-abiding presence to guide us in choosing our words wisely.